bROKEN aND sHATTERED

Life has always played this game of "balancing act" with me. I get some good things happening in my life which are compensated by somethings worse. But the bad part is that it never happens vice versa. Nothing good happens as a compensation effect in my life.
I have an update for all. I was working with Ogilvy PR in Chennai earlier. But things did not go well and I ultimately had to resign. Was upset also because I had to leave such a big brand beacuse of a bitch boss. Had to wait for two months before I could get something else. And finally I am very happy to inform all that I have joined the grand company McKinsey & Company.
But as Fernando (a friend in Chennai) said, “Is this the way you celebrate your happiness”? I asked why he felt that way. He said that he could very easily find no trace of excitement in my voice. I said that’s true because that’s how I have become. If I seem like celebrating or enjoying something, it's an acting talent of mine. I always act. I guess it has become a part of my life. Because I lost all the excitement in life around three years back after an incident in my life which I will disclose on this blog only before the day I die. And Fernando got very pissed off.

The compensation theory has worked this time too. In fact, it has worked with a much higher degree than ever. I guess it only had to. Since the company is so big, the bang in my life also had to be big. Recently something happened that opened my eyes to something that had happened in the past. It has left me so broken and shattered that I have started hating myself. It has taken off my sleep since days and that is why I am writing this blog at 3:30 a.m. getting out of my bed after losing the battle with sleep. Suddenly I have lost my own respect in my own eyes. I am so shattered. The theories and principles that I used to believe in, have started seeming so empty. I feel exploited, used to the fullest. I feel like a rape victim - feel like the creepiest, dirty-most insect in the shittiest of the gutter. Mind you, I have not been molested ever. Just personifying things. I have a question for God. Was this much of suffering really required to make the man out of me?

Anyway, I am living with these truths, that everyday try their level best not to let that smile stay on my face.

I feel blurred, not able to figure things out. Really tired of surviving just for the sake of surviving. Really doubt if there is God, although I believe so much in him. Have I done so much of wrong? What a punishment. I can’t breathe. Feels like I am drowning in an ocean. An ocean which has no way out. No air - no air.

I wish I could rewind time, go back and change certain things. But I know I can’t. I will have to live with this, throughout my life and probably after that too. But I promise to myself, console myself that if there is any existence of a ghost or a spirit then some people’s lives are going to be a great mess. I promise to myself today that I take the responsibility of making their lives worse and make them plead like I am doing right now. I will make sure that this happens.

“All is my heart out, nothing is a lie….
For one reason I have lived and for the same I’ll die….”

hEY, everyone. Its been long since I have talked about Music. I was thinking over this since the last few days.

Recently, I was gifted a Mini IPod by one of my family members. Oh....!! I couldn't believe that I was holding that IPod in my hand. Just few days back, while traveling in a train, I had seen a Mini IPod in a passenger's hand. And right then a wish clicked in my mind that if I could also have a Music Player like that. And when I finally got it, I was so surprised that the IPod I had dreamed of, was exactly the same as the one I was holding in my hand. The same size, same colour, everything. 

Now, since the moment I got it, it was stuck to my ears and its been a month and it hardly gets out of my ears. I have downloaded a lot and lot of songs into it. I keep listening to it continuously. But you know what, i might be listening to all the commercial songs the whole day, but at least once a day I need to listen to something classical. It gives me so strength, peace. It is a kind of meditation to me.

Jus a request guys. Jus jus jus try once listening to something Indian Classical. Be it instrumental music, vocal music or Tabla recitation anything. And feel the difference.

Always remember. You might be feeling trendy while listening to your favorite Band of Rock music. But you can gain elegance, only by listening to our own Indian Classical Music, 'coz it makes you much more mature and intelligent than you can even think of.

Think about it.

wHY????

I jus wonder sometimes, why do we....

....why do we hesitate in talking about certain things in life! Is it because we think it will embarrass us more or we just don't have the guts to accept the facts in & of, our lives. Those words would just not come out of our mouth. No matter how hard we try. We try as much as possible not to bring even a hint of that issue while conversing, and even if it pops up, in between the conversation, we just try to direct it to somewhere else so that it doesn't make us fall in a false position. All of us have done it quite a many times. And, guess, will be doing it again and again and again....

Why can't we talk about and accept those realities of our lives? Does our EGO hinder the process of accepting those realities?....EGO PROBLEM???? Is it?

We don't understand. We just don't understand....that jus talking about it, might help Us and the person in question become better human beings. It might not get a broken relationship back to its previous stage, but it can help it get better. At least better than the present situation.

Yes, I have suffered great losses in the past just because I or my friends in question did not communicate well. We did not talk about some important things. We never even tried to. And as a result I lost them. All of them! Moreover, even when we talk now, we don't talk about those issues. Or even if we do, we modify the things in such a manner so that at the end of the day we stay in a respectful position. As respectful as we can!

Please guys, think over it. Confess, if you have done something wrong, if not now then later. But please do it. It may give a little peace and happiness to someone. Accept the truth and realities of your life. Remember, "It is better late, than never."

If you do it once, I bet you yourself will feel very proud that you made someone feel better today because of just a small thing. You will feel like a changed person. Believe me, I have tried it, and it gave me a new feeling. At least it gave me a reason to smile.

Try not wasting this life in only getting what you want. Just live one day for others, for somebody else! Dedicate yourself to him/her, jus for one single day. You might not be aware but it might be a great favour for them.

Talk....Talk and get things clear. Life has different plans for us. Do not let it take away all the opportunities....to resolve the problems and misunderstandings....

Jus remember, "....pEOPLE wILL fORGET wHAT yOU Said....pEOPLE wILL fORGET wHAT yOU dID....bUT pEOPLE wILL nEVER eVER fORGET hOW yOU mADE tHEM fEEL...."

Think about it....